Every one of us had many issues and stuff to be handled in life, and sometimes we try to find our ways in solving the problems around us. There are few ways when we face any situation or problems, always know yourself first and do not quickly respond to the incident happen around you.
1) First of all, you must look deeply into yourself carefully and ask a few questions as follows:
a. Am I always thinking negatively of others? If yes, please change. Try to replace by positive words and instill your mind with a positive thought.
b. Are you easily influenced by thought, words and principles of others around you? Please remember, they are not in line with our inner voice, and our inner voice should align with our God/source.
c. Always recheck our thoughts in our minds. Is there any past experience that influence your perspective and thought? Start with breathing and ‘zero manacles’ while connecting to Source.
d. While you are making a decision, do you have self-interest on it? Listen to your inner voice, think it as a big picture and look into few considerations. You also need to set your priority and aligned with your objective/vision.
e. If you are in trouble, try to see things differently and in every single aspect. Do not view in a limited and one-sided way. However, practice to think as a whole and get the big picture.
f. Please avoid comparing your thought and your perception. Try to see things on the outside view rather than on an internal view.
g. If you receive any information from books, television, social media, look at it positively and compare them to your inner voice. If it is suitable, then we call it a universal agreement where the truth comes from God/Source.
h. If you are Muslim, train your inner voice to think naturally and with purity. You can start practising Asmaul Husna and recite Subhanallah while remembering His gracious & merciful.
2) You need to train and enhance your spiritual quotient, start with small action until it becomes your habit naturally. Change your routine daily and it will change your habit.
Keep persistence in taking action until your inner voice opens up and able to listen to yourself deeply and clearly. Finally, that voice will be your friend, and it will always give you very important information. For Muslim, do not forget your main sources of reference, which are Al-Quran and As-Sunnah. The true inner voice is always directing Muslim to obey a command from Allah S.W.T and follow His Messenger Prophet through Al-Hadith aligned with brain logic as thinker and executor.
Mr. Saiful Farhan